Welcome to the first edition of the Throwback Thursday Memory BlogHop where we take on a nostalgic object, event, or memory and blog about it. This week Maggie chose the topic, “learning to drive.”
How to Participate:
It’s Easy! Write your own post about the subject and share your own memories or experience about the topic by leaving a pingback to this post in the comments.
It could even be a story about a parent or a sibling or someone else who figured prominently. Poems are welcome, too. You can use the photo above in your post and tag it with #TBTMemory or #IRememberWhen to make it easier for others to find.
Or, even easier, if you do not wish to write your own post, feel free to tell your story in the comments below!
Today’s subject: Learning to Drive
Who taught you? Did you take drivers training? What kind of car did you drive? Were you nervous? Did you hit anything? Did you pass your driver’s test the first time? What was the weather like? I will post a pingback to my own story later today. Hope to see you in the comments (beep your horn as you drive by) 😉
I was very anxious to drive way before I was 15. I signed up for the mandatory driver’s education class at school. My mom insisted that I would not be allowed behind the wheel of her car until I completed both the mandatory class at school as well as the after school behind the wheel training. (It was all free back in the dinosaur days.) Driver’s training class was included as part of a health class.
The in-school class was a piece of cake. I aced it. The behind the wheel part was not so easy. I have no idea what type of car my instructor drove. There were two girls and two boys in the car at the same time. I remember that we girls had to be the last to be picked up and the first to be dropped off just in cast the teacher was a perve. (He was not.)
The teacher was also a coach. To me personally, that meant that he wasn’t a real teacher. (No offense to any coaches out there.) He used the drivers training class as a means to do his errands. He was actually quite calm and kind. His directions were clear and he made sure we understood each step. I was very frightened when it was my turn to drive, but not when the others drove. I had the least experience driving because I was a total newbie. (Thanks to my mom’s edict.)
We took turns driving through my neighborhood and then my city. Left turns scared the crud out of me. I was often the fourth one to drive on each outing, but when we started doing lefts, without a left turn light, I was first. The last thing I wanted to do was to make a left turn when oncoming traffic did not have to stop. I was ready to quit driving forever.
But, I successfully made it. My biggest fear was that I would be the one to get a ticket, or run into something. Happily, no one ever had an accident or incident while we were learning to drive.
By the time we were driving the freeway my instructor was planning a dinner party. We, student drivers, took him to a florist, caterer, dry cleaners, and other party planning places. It seemed less frightening just completing his errands. Maybe that was his plan all along.
After I earned my certificate, my mom let me drive her car. It was a station wagon, and much larger than the car I learned to drive in. So many memories of driving around. I developed a new fear. The fear of getting lost. I had no sense of direction then and it is still not wonderful to this day.
This is great
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Thanks Sadje. I hope you join us.
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You’re welcome! The post will be published today.
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Yay
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Thanks 🙏
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Gosh you are all going to laugh at me!
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I enjoyed your story. So many things can go wrong when learning to drive.
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Yes and when it comes to me they often so 😂😂😂😂
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As they said here in the 70s Keep on truckin’
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Lol that’s true
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One of the few good things to come out of my first marriage was having passed my driving test. I got custody of the ‘new’ car and the loan that went with it in the divorce settlement.
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I am glad you were able to continue to drive. I remember custody of the car being an issue at the end of my first marriage.
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He already had one, and |I needed one for work so it made sense to I took over the loan too.
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This was a great prompt. Enjoyed reading it and writing it. You can read mine from the link below
https://miraclemoments.in/2021/08/26/throwback-thursday-learning-to-drive/
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A great story. It is awful that your instructor just left you to deal with the outburst. You did handle it well.
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Yeah while writing this I remembered all that !
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That often happens to me too. Memories flood in.
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Where were you living at the time, Lauren? I remember the first time I came to Los Angeles and saw the traffic lights on the entrance ramps to the freeway! Yikes! I remember taking a tour and the tour guide telling us other than driving the tour bus she never drove in LA. She hated the traffic and could only drive the set route on her tour. 😳
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The suburbs of Southern California. Traffic on freeways wasn’t terrible at all then. We never went too far on the freeway. We practiced getting on and off the freeway a lot. We were a good hour plus from the real LA traffic.
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Then you were fortunate. I do not know how anyone drives in LA.
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Me neither. To this day, I don’t drive there.
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Goodness, I’m still trying to process that driving lessons were free in your day! Great story, Lauren.
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Thanks Mary
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It’s amazing how things were so different on the other side of the pond. I enjoyed reading.
Here’s my tale 💜
https://willowdot21.wordpress.com/2021/08/26/throw-back-thursday-learning-to-drive/
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Thanks Willow
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This will be a fun challenge for Thursdays!
Our family car was a station wagon, too! Those cars were so long! haha 🙂
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My first car was a Ford Falcon Station wagon. It’s former owner was a reckless teen male driver. After he racked up too many tickets, his mom made him sell it. He had souped it up like crazy and if I wanted to race it, I was in the right car.
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Here is my contribution:https://loucarrerascarver.com/2021/08/26/drive-she-said/
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You’re story is so simular to my own, it brought back many good memories, and the feeling of total freedom when I was behind the wheel, warmly, C
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Thanks Cheryl. It was so good to drive. I would have been a lot better off had I had navigation back then.
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